In “Mondays at Racine,” Breast Cancer
Patients Bond at a Beauty Salon
By Beth Rubin
In
“Mondays at Racine,” an award-winning short documentary by Cynthia
Wade, sisters Rachel and Cynthia throw open the doors of their Long
Island beauty salon one Monday
a month to breast cancer patients in need of infusions of R and R.
While coping with the disease’s devastating physical and emotional
effects, the women handle the day-to-day life-altering challenges with
intelligence, poise, and good humor. But chemo-related hair loss pushes
them to the brink.
In the
welcoming arms of the empathetic salon owners, whose mother, we learn,
became reclusive as her self-image as a woman diminished after her own
breast cancer diagnosis and treatment, members of this tight sorority
gather to shed their locks and inhibitions and to reclaim their
femininity. Through spa treatments, makeup tips, abundant hugs, and
quasi-group therapy, they regain their identities as empowered women
who just happen to have cancer. Unburdening themselves, they share the
inevitable emotional fallout from breast cancer—how it affects their
self-image, sexuality, relationships with their spouses and children,
and hopes for the future—and form an impervious bond.
The
opening scene in the salon introduces us to a handful of women of
different ages in various stages of treatment and hair loss. They try on
hats, banter, and laugh unselfconsciously as if they’re meeting for tea
or a girlfriends’ getaway. The mood changes when the women begin to
tell their stories.
Cambria is
married with a loving husband and son, and is in the process of adopting
a second child. Her diagnosis, Stage 3 metastatic breast cancer, may
well prevent her from completing the adoption. We follow her into the
shower and watch as her hair —“women’s crowning glory”— collects in the
drain.
We
accompany Cambria and Linda as they make difficult medical and personal
decisions, anguish and pleasure intermittently writ large on their
faces. We applaud their strengths, feel their pain, and cheer their
victories. We know these women. They are us. If we have not yet walked
in their shoes, they are our sisters, mothers, daughters, or best
friends.
This is not a film to be
avoided because it arouses uncomfortable feelings. It should be seen by
all women—and by the men who love them.
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