Reviewed by Nadja Maril
“Thanks for Sharing” is the expression I tend to use when
someone has given me way too much personal information and I’m trying to be
polite. But when you are an addict attending a support group, part of the
healing process is sharing.
Honestly verbalizing your feelings helps facilitate recovery.
The majority of characters in the movie “Thanks for Sharing” directed by Stuart
Blumberg, screenplay by Blumberg and Matt Winston, are doing just
that—attempting to recover from addiction. These addicts played by actors Mark Ruffalo, Tim
Robbins, Josh Gad, and Alecia Moore are not your typical drug,
gambling, or alcohol addicts. They are addicted to sex. They are so addicted to sex that they
are unable to successfully function in their daily lives. A ride on the subway
brings the temptation of other people’s bodies to rub against, while a computer
provides access to tempting pornography sites. Even a television is a forbidden
item for a sex addict in recovery as it might provide entertainment, which
could awake subdued desires.
Tim Robbins plays Mike, group leader and mentor/sponsor of
Adam played by Mark Ruffalo, who has been in recovery and has been celibate for
five years. Adam is finally ready to attempt a committed relationship with a
woman. The object of his desire is
Phoebe, played by Gwyneth Paltrow, who has her own challenging personal issues.
Five years earlier she had breast cancer and has prosthetic breasts. Cancer
free, she is fixated on healthy living, which includes strenuous exercise and a
vegetarian diet. Her previous boyfriend was an alcoholic and on their first
date she tells Adam she doesn’t want to date another addict and asks whether he
ever had a drinking problem. While this logically would have been the perfect
time to come clean with the story of his sex addiction, Adam is too infatuated
with Phoebe to risk losing the opportunity for intimacy so early in their
relationship.
The push and pull of the relationship between Adam and
Phoebe and Mike’s relationship with his own family take center stage in this
well constructed screenplay that is both humorous and sad, but it is the
relationship between nymphomaniac Dede and food and sex obsessed ER doctor Neil
which really tells the story.
The unlikely friendship between the tattooed punk style
beautician played by Alecia Moore (also known as singer/song writer Pink) and
the young overweight Mama’s boy physician played by Josh Gad includes the gift
from Dede of a pink bicycle that enables Neil to travel around the city of New
York without the need for expensive taxis or the off limits subway. It’s while he’s on that bicycle,
drenched in perspiration because he is way out of shape and you are routing for
him to succeed in reaching his goals, that I first became consciously aware of
the film’s soundtrack and how much
I liked the music. Soundtrack
music can create mood, suspense, and elation. It can bridge the passage of time and convey the connections
forming between the characters. But movie music is not necessarily music you
want to listen to on its own.
The “Thanks For Sharing” soundtrack music is notably good. So good that I made a mental note
to purchase the soundtrack for future listening and I did. The lines in “This
Year” as performed by the Mountain Goat,
This time I’m going to make it
through this year if it kills
me, reinforced the efforts of the
characters seeking to control their addiction and improve their lives. At the
movie’s end when I heard Billy Bragg sing Tender Comrade and the lines, What will you say of the bond
we had, tender comrade? Will you say that we were brave as the shells fell all
around us?, the message of the bonding that
developed between the characters was reinforced.
After purchasing the soundtrack online and starting to write
this review I took a look at the soundtrack notes and learned just how
important the soundtrack songs had been to writer/director Stuart Blumberg. He writes, “this
movie’s soundtrack is heavily indebted to songs that have meant a lot to me
over my life…The ones I chose were united by a common element: the primacy of
the voice. Literally, their human voice. I wanted those voices to stand as
counterpoint to the voices of characters, who throughout the movie, bare their
souls in the safety of the room of their 12 step programs.” His song selection did not go
unnoticed.
Thanks for Sharing premiered at the 2012 Toronto
International Film Festival and was released in the United States last month
(Sept.20, 2013). I recommend seeing the film and I recommend buying the
soundtrack.
